So what questions should I ask a prospective submissive once I've found one of interest?
Ask your new submissive some sexual questions
1. What key words that trigger your arousal or submissive response?
2. What sexual/foreplay acts arouses you MOST intensely?
3. What bondage/submission fantasies/role-play do you desire?
4. What BDSM acts do you deeply want to try and why?
5. What are your BDSM hard limits?
6. How would you describe yourself and your kinks?
7. How did you discover your submissive tendencies?
8. How do you see kinks fitting into dating/life partnership?
9. Describe your D/s relationship thus far and where you see it going in the future and what are your thoughts on porn, sexting, etc.
10. If you are part of the online kink community, what has been your experience of it? Supportive, informative? Mostly good? Mostly bad?
11. Are you a switch? How does your attraction to different partners work? Do you feel submissive to some and dominant to others?
12. How were you introduced to the BDSM lifestyle?
13. Was your first experience (BDSM) as a dominant or submissive?
14. How did you feel about it?
15. As a submissive, what do you especially like for your Dominant to do? (Particular toys you enjoy, actions?)
16. What draws you to wanting to be submissive?
Think up 10 more of your own sexual questions to ask your submissive.
Ask some normal get to know you questions, and also answer them.
1. Who is your hero?
2. If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
3. What is your biggest fear?
4. What would you change about yourself if you could?
5. What really makes you angry?
6. What is your favourite thing about your career?
7. What is your biggest complaint about your job?
8. What is your proudest accomplishment?
9. What is your favourite book to read?
10. What was the last movie you went to? What did you think?
11. If you could choose to do anything for a day, what would it be?
12. What is your favourite game or sport to watch and play?
13. Would you rather ride a bike, ride a horse, or drive a car?
14. What would you sing at Karaoke night?
15. What two radio stations do you listen to in the car the most?
16. Which would you rather do: wash dishes, mow the lawn, clean the bathroom, or vacuum the house?
17. Have you ever had a nickname? What is it?
18. Do you like or dislike surprises? Why or why not?
19. In the evening, would you rather play a game, visit a relative, watch a movie, or read?
20. Would you rather vacation in Hawaii or Alaska, and why?
21. Who would you want to be stranded with on a deserted island?
22. If money was no object, what would you do all day?
23. What are your hobbies?
24. Aside from necessities, what one thing could you not go a day without?
25. How many pairs of shoes do you own?
26. What form of public transportation do you prefer? (air, boat, train, bus, car, etc.)
27. What's your favourite zoo animal?
28. How many pillows do you sleep with?
29. What's the longest you've gone without sleep (and why)?
30. What's the tallest building you've been to the top in?
31. How often do you buy clothes?
32. What's the most daring thing you've ever done?
33. What was the last book you read?
34. Are you a clean or messy person?
35. How long does it take you to get ready in the morning?
36. What's your favourite fast food chain?
37. Do you love or hate rollercoaster’s?
38. What's your favourite movie?
39. What three items would you take with you on a deserted island?
40. Do you collect anything?
41. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
42. What do you do to keep fit?
43. What three things do you think of the most each day?
44. If you had a warning label, what would yours say?
45. What was your first job?
46. If you could join any past or current music group which would you want to join?
47. How many languages do you speak?
48. If you had to describe yourself as an animal, which one would it be?
49. What is one thing you will never do again?
50. Who knows you the best?
Think of another 10 questions about your submissive that you would like to know and ask her.
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